Tired of Needy Women but still Love Vouge

If I here one more person talk about Jennifer Lopez having a big ass I am going to I don't know kill them or may send them to one of my family reunions so the can see large men and women with no Asses.
Gripe Gripe GripeNo she is not my cup of tea. I like my tea English or Irish skinny and yes no ass. Case in point Cillian Murphy from Disco PigsButt, back to the ass thing. I have been listening to the same old discussion as of late and it involves woman and weight, mind you I am over weight and yes I have lost about 65lb but my ends and my means are not about the same things anymore and will never will be again.
To me what is happening to me now is a journey in which yoga, karma, self awaking and teaching my children has come to fruition
I am looking to unite myself together. A whole/holy Trinity of sorts. No separation of mind body and spirit. This means mutual respect for the god figure within and that means honoring choice. So it is never anything but life choices. Working for and endocrinologist you learn what is a personal choice and what is genetic so I can see people are faced with daily but I digress.
Back to the fat ass.
Women and sometimes men complain about being fat they starve themselves, they trap themselves and look for quick fixes even when it is more exercise and less food. They beat themselves up for falling off the wagon They believe that 20lbs or 30lbs or 100lbs lost they will achieve happiness. What is this happiness. I buy happiness in the form of a lipstick all the time, let me tell you it does not work for me and you are kidding yourself if you think it is going to work for you.
I talk about this because I keep thinking that people will stop playing lip service to health and happiness and really try to live it. I wish they would not hate themselves and their bodies so much that thinking that Jennifer Lopez has a fat ass and Kate Moss Is too thin and that they have the God given right to judge perfection.
They make me want to WHACK A MOLE